RESILIENT PEOPLE PODCAST
Living in the in-between moments
February 28, 2025 I 5:00 I S5: E58
After suffering a devastating loss this past fall, I began to rethink what’s important to me and how I view a resilient mindset. The loss of my 25 year old daughter Isobel was something that I didn't know if I would ever recover from.
With the help of friends, family and taking lots of time to only focus on myself and my son, I feel that I've also learned to embrace the in between moments to help in rebuilding my life.
With the help of friends, family and taking lots of time to only focus on myself and my son, I feel that I've also learned to embrace the in between moments to help in rebuilding my life.
Caring for caregivers: Tara MacIntosh of Gregor's Gift
October 30, 2024 I 50:20 I S4: E57
The day that Tara Macintosh found out that she was pregnant with twins, her husband was also diagnosed with Stage 4 Esophageal Cancer.
She shared her of: being in the throes of caregiver life while managing pregnancy; starting a fundraiser to help other care partners; the importance of her husband Gregor’s legacy for her young children.
She shared her of: being in the throes of caregiver life while managing pregnancy; starting a fundraiser to help other care partners; the importance of her husband Gregor’s legacy for her young children.
Helping Ukraine's mothers & children: Nathan & Dana Schmidt of Mountain Seed Foundation
October 10, 2024 I 59:46 I S4: E56
Nathan and Dana Schmidt were in Iraq when they met and fell in-love. He was serving three tours as a US Marine and she was with the Foreign Service. With their own personal story as a backdrop, they established the non-profit Mountain Seed Foundation to help children and their families of Ukraine to face their fears and build resilience.
I had the pleasure of speaking with them both for the RESILIENT PEOPLE podcast. Nathan was very open about the effects that war has had on his mental health and the healing powers he found in mountain climbing. Dana shared how therapy as well as their family and friends were a big support to her as she held Nathan and their children through challenges.
I had the pleasure of speaking with them both for the RESILIENT PEOPLE podcast. Nathan was very open about the effects that war has had on his mental health and the healing powers he found in mountain climbing. Dana shared how therapy as well as their family and friends were a big support to her as she held Nathan and their children through challenges.
Fabulous in flats and living with MS: Kelli Gastis
SEPTEMBER 4, 2024 I 27:31 I S4: E55
Kelli Gastis is a wife, mother, former dancer and can now add author to her list of achievements. Her book, Fabulous In Flats, is about the journey that Multiple Sclerosis has taken her on and how she has maintained a resilient mindset through the challenges.
We spoke about her inspiration, how she channels a strong mindset and building resilience on a daily basis.
We spoke about her inspiration, how she channels a strong mindset and building resilience on a daily basis.
No one gets out of mud on their own: Raymond Chhun
AUGUST 7, 2024 I 42:10 I S4: E54
Raymond Chhun is a registered nurse in Winnipeg, Manitoba. He's worked in clinic as well as an instructor, and is currently applying for his PhD to research building resilience in nursing. When he was just 13 years old, Raymond had sadly already lost both of his parents.
Through his teen years he struggled in school and his social circle. Thanks to proactive mentors who helped guide him and build his resilience, he went on to a prosperous career in nursing and continues to give back to his community.
Through his teen years he struggled in school and his social circle. Thanks to proactive mentors who helped guide him and build his resilience, he went on to a prosperous career in nursing and continues to give back to his community.
'Project Me': Wellness expert Sharon Summerfield
JULY 5, 2024 I 40:31 I S4: E53
Sharon Summerfield is the founder of the Nourished Executive and counsels clients on dealing with burnout, stress management and building healthy daily rituals. Once a busy executive assistant and project manager for various engineering firms, she made a pivot to create the Nourished Executive by identifying a need and what was working for her in her own personal wellness journey.
After suffering debilitating pain from two accidents, Sharon created ‘Project Me’ and built her own team of experts who helped her to get on the right track. She encourages others to follow the same course.
After suffering debilitating pain from two accidents, Sharon created ‘Project Me’ and built her own team of experts who helped her to get on the right track. She encourages others to follow the same course.
Recovery is obtainable: Hurricane Dorian survivor Tara Pyfrom
JUNE 20, 2024 I 40:28 I S4: E52
Tara Pyfrom grew up in the beautiful Bahamas. Residents there are used to hurricanes. In 2019 Tara's beloved island experienced the wrath of Hurricane Dorian, the biggest cyclone to hit the Bahamas. She along with her wife and daughter watched as their home filled with water, making its way all the way up to the attic. Once the storm passed and they were forced to evacuate, they needed to find a place to live and eventually found their way to Canada.
We spoke about living through the scariest moments of the hurricane, the moments of problem-solving, the benefits of therapy and seeking all different types of it, the purpose she found from this challenge and where she draws her resilience.
We spoke about living through the scariest moments of the hurricane, the moments of problem-solving, the benefits of therapy and seeking all different types of it, the purpose she found from this challenge and where she draws her resilience.
Welcome to season 4 of RESILIENT PEOPLE
JUNE 20, 2024 I 5:00 I S4: E51
Welcome to Season 4 of the RESILIENT PEOPLE podcast. In this episode, host Janet Fanaki reflects on some of the learnings from past guests, the purpose that they found from the challenges they faced and how a bigger purpose can be created through adversity. Janet says, "a major challenge will most definitely change you, but it doesn’t need to define who you are for the rest of your life."
How to die with no regrets: Dawn Custode
FEBRUARY 18, 2023 I 26:18 I S3: E50
Dawn Custode was in her dying days when she spoke with me back in 2019. She had been living with colon cancer for over two and a half years and made it her mission to live her remaining days to the fullest. Dawn and her husband Jim went on big trips around the world, made sure to spend time with the ones she loved and also took any opportunity to share her wisdom on how to die with no regrets.
We spoke about priorities, not wasting time, her perspective on death and what may be waiting for her on the other side.
We spoke about priorities, not wasting time, her perspective on death and what may be waiting for her on the other side.
The 3rd edition of how to find joy on Valentine's Day when you're single
FEBRUARY 12, 2023 I 08:32 I S3: E49
My husband Adam passed away on February 15, 2020 after a three and a half year battle against glioblastoma, the most aggressive form of brain cancer.
For this episode of the podcast, I've brought back a popular topic that I've covered a couple of times before. Fun ways to enjoy Valentine's Day when you are single. I'm sharing insights that have worked for me, as well as feedback that I've collected from many single people who have found ways to be happy and fulfilled on a tricky day.
For this episode of the podcast, I've brought back a popular topic that I've covered a couple of times before. Fun ways to enjoy Valentine's Day when you are single. I'm sharing insights that have worked for me, as well as feedback that I've collected from many single people who have found ways to be happy and fulfilled on a tricky day.
A grieving mother's campaign to stop college campus hazing: Rae Ann Gruver
DECEMBER 14, 2022 I 45:41 I S3: E48
In 2017, Max Gruver began as a freshman at Louisiana State University. He, along with his parents, was full of hope and excitement.
From Georgia, his parents heard about his first weeks away at school which included pledging at various fraternities. They never anticipated that on September 17th they would receive a call that would change their lives forever. Max died at LSU from a hazing event held at Phi Delta Theta house.
In her grief, Rae Ann Gruver new that something needed to change so that no one else would die the way that her son Max did. Her family created The Max Gruver Foundation to abolish hazing on campuses, to educate young people on the risks associated with it and to change laws state by state. I spoke with Rae Ann about this purpose, becoming a changer, and where her resilience comes from?
From Georgia, his parents heard about his first weeks away at school which included pledging at various fraternities. They never anticipated that on September 17th they would receive a call that would change their lives forever. Max died at LSU from a hazing event held at Phi Delta Theta house.
In her grief, Rae Ann Gruver new that something needed to change so that no one else would die the way that her son Max did. Her family created The Max Gruver Foundation to abolish hazing on campuses, to educate young people on the risks associated with it and to change laws state by state. I spoke with Rae Ann about this purpose, becoming a changer, and where her resilience comes from?
Decoding insomnia to build resilience: Sleep expert Dr. Cara Ooi
NOVEMBER 17, 2022 I 39:21 I S3: E47
Toronto psychiatrist and sleep expert Dr. Cara Ooi is my latest guest on the RESILIENT PEOPLE podcast. Helping teens to sleep better is her main focus, but as our conversation will show, sleep disorders cover every age group. As many of us struggle to get a good night's rest, Dr. Ooi offers simple and effective tools to help us.
Without getting the necessary amount of sleep, it impacts everything from our productivity to our relationships. But as she confirms, there are many options. Her approach includes changing the way we use our bed, addressing the light around us and sleep timing. Listen and learn how to get the sleep you've been dreaming of.
Without getting the necessary amount of sleep, it impacts everything from our productivity to our relationships. But as she confirms, there are many options. Her approach includes changing the way we use our bed, addressing the light around us and sleep timing. Listen and learn how to get the sleep you've been dreaming of.
What makes midlife so messy? Author Ann Douglas
NOVEMBER 5, 2022 I 37:47 I S3: E46
Canadian author Ann Douglas has been writing books about parenting for years. Popular guides to help pregnant women and new parents prepare for the exciting and very unpredictable life of parenthood.
In her latest book, "Navigating the messy middle: A fiercely honest and wildly encouraging guide for midlife women", Ann is turning her attention and expert research to helping women through the midlife years. As she said in our conversation, "Being in the middle chapter of life, I started to wonder what is this life stage and how can I enjoy it?" She interviewed over 100 women during the pandemic, filling the book with wisdom and strategies through heartfelt, funny, sad and inspiring stories.
In her latest book, "Navigating the messy middle: A fiercely honest and wildly encouraging guide for midlife women", Ann is turning her attention and expert research to helping women through the midlife years. As she said in our conversation, "Being in the middle chapter of life, I started to wonder what is this life stage and how can I enjoy it?" She interviewed over 100 women during the pandemic, filling the book with wisdom and strategies through heartfelt, funny, sad and inspiring stories.
Building resilience with better brain health
OCTOBER 28, 2022 I 7:47 I S3: E43
I've been reading the latest book by Dr. Sanjay Gupta titled, "Keep Sharp: Build A Better Brain At Any Age".
It's very informative and a science-driven guide to preventing brain decline. But I also found that the advice is beneficial for overall wellness and positive mental health. As I focus a lot of my learning for RESILIENT PEOPLE on building resilience and learning from those who demonstrate a positive mindset, Dr. Gupta offers some terrific and easy to employ tips for maintaining our overall health. In this short episode of the podcast, I offer some of my favourite takeaways.
It's very informative and a science-driven guide to preventing brain decline. But I also found that the advice is beneficial for overall wellness and positive mental health. As I focus a lot of my learning for RESILIENT PEOPLE on building resilience and learning from those who demonstrate a positive mindset, Dr. Gupta offers some terrific and easy to employ tips for maintaining our overall health. In this short episode of the podcast, I offer some of my favourite takeaways.
Starting over in midlife: Travel enthusiast Katie Clark
OCTOBER 28, 2022 I 37:20 I S3: E42
Katie Clark is a 42 year old mom, solo traveller and recently divorced. She got married very young, had three children pretty quickly and for the last 16 years has practiced as an emergency room nurse.
Like many married couples, she and her husband were going through the motions of life and marriage - focused on raising children and busy with their careers. As she was approaching her midlife years, Katie felt unhappy with the status quo and wanted that to change. She knew that she had a choice to make, and at 42 years of age, she chose to leave her husband and buy a one-way ticket to Paris.
We spoke about the importance for midlife women being true to themselves and not giving up on their dreams, learning to be their own best friends, our love of singing, and being comfortable alone and on their own.
Like many married couples, she and her husband were going through the motions of life and marriage - focused on raising children and busy with their careers. As she was approaching her midlife years, Katie felt unhappy with the status quo and wanted that to change. She knew that she had a choice to make, and at 42 years of age, she chose to leave her husband and buy a one-way ticket to Paris.
We spoke about the importance for midlife women being true to themselves and not giving up on their dreams, learning to be their own best friends, our love of singing, and being comfortable alone and on their own.
Embracing midlife changes: Divorce lawyer Leanne Townsend
OCTOBER 6, 2022 I 33:46 I S3: E41
On this episode of the RESILIENT PEOPLE podcast, I welcome my friend Leanne Townsend. A divorce and family lawyer in Toronto.Running a busy law practice, the creator of the Divorcing Well podcast and mom of two adult children - Leanne is a terrific person to have on to talk about midlife issues.
We spoke about some big changes that have recently happened in her life. Namely, selling her family home and starting her own law firm. As two midlife women, we talked about: - embracing big life changes and the benefits of changing everything at once - the freedom of letting go - including children in our decisions - how to find a good divorce lawyer - building a solid support system - our mutual appreciation for the TLC show 90 Day Fiancé - and calling this "The Year Of (insert your name here)" as a form of self care.
We spoke about some big changes that have recently happened in her life. Namely, selling her family home and starting her own law firm. As two midlife women, we talked about: - embracing big life changes and the benefits of changing everything at once - the freedom of letting go - including children in our decisions - how to find a good divorce lawyer - building a solid support system - our mutual appreciation for the TLC show 90 Day Fiancé - and calling this "The Year Of (insert your name here)" as a form of self care.
Changing careers in midlife: Audrey Guth of Nanny Angel Network
SEPTEMBER 22, 2022 I 33:00 I S3:E40
When Audrey Guth was 50 years old, she was diagnosed with cancer. This inspired her to shortly thereafter create a new non-for-profit organization called Nanny Angel Network.
As the operator of a personnel agency which specialized in home care and nanny services, she felt uniquely positioned to help mothers undergoing the heavy demands of cancer treatments. By having this purpose, she also believed that it helped her get better.
Switching careers at any point in your life can be hard, but doing it in midlife can come with extra challenges. At a time when many women are seeking a way to reinvent themselves, Audrey's story is a powerful message for midlife women that it is never too late to learn something new and to feel that you are making a difference in the world.
As the operator of a personnel agency which specialized in home care and nanny services, she felt uniquely positioned to help mothers undergoing the heavy demands of cancer treatments. By having this purpose, she also believed that it helped her get better.
Switching careers at any point in your life can be hard, but doing it in midlife can come with extra challenges. At a time when many women are seeking a way to reinvent themselves, Audrey's story is a powerful message for midlife women that it is never too late to learn something new and to feel that you are making a difference in the world.
Welcome to Season 3 of RESILIENT PEOPLE
SEPTEMBER 10, 2022 I 4:35 I S3:E39
Hi everyone! It's Janet Fanaki and I'm back with Season 3 of the RESILIENT PEOPLE podcast. We're doing things a little differently this year. For the first two seasons, we met regular people from around the world who are admired for their resilience. Men and women who have experienced major life challenges, found a purpose from these events and are now inspiring others to be resilient too.
As a midlife, single mom I have now found myself looking to other midlife women for guidance and inspiration. So this new season of RESILIENT PEOPLE will be exploring the stories of women who have encountered various challenges and found that this latest chapter is one of the best and most rewarding of their lives. The aim is to show that we are always evolving and big exciting changes can still come our way. Even in the midlife years.
As a midlife, single mom I have now found myself looking to other midlife women for guidance and inspiration. So this new season of RESILIENT PEOPLE will be exploring the stories of women who have encountered various challenges and found that this latest chapter is one of the best and most rewarding of their lives. The aim is to show that we are always evolving and big exciting changes can still come our way. Even in the midlife years.
Moving forward with loss: Grief coach Sherrie Dunlevy
APRIL 29, 2022 I 35:08 I S2:E38
Meet grief coach Sherrie Dunlevy. She is the creator of the Graduating Grief Academy and her goal is to help people find joy again while living with loss. As she says, “For 13 years following his death, I would describe myself as a mother who was existing, not really living. I was surviving, but I certainly wasn’t thriving.”
You've got to have friends
April 23, 2022 | 6:56 | S2:E37
We all remember being in high school and dating someone new and thinking that that person was all that mattered. When things went south, where were your friends? They would be the ones to lift your spirit, get you drunk to feel better about the break-up and help you move on.
The same happens as middle aged adults. We need our really good friends more than ever to help us feel okay. And we need to teach our children the importance of good solid friendships. This episode of RESILIENT PEOPLE is all about the importance of maintaining our good friendships to build resilience.
The same happens as middle aged adults. We need our really good friends more than ever to help us feel okay. And we need to teach our children the importance of good solid friendships. This episode of RESILIENT PEOPLE is all about the importance of maintaining our good friendships to build resilience.
You are not a label: Diabetes social media advocate Caitlin Starr
April 13, 2022 | 28:11 | S2:E36
For this episode of the RESILIENT PEOPLE podcast, I spoke with Caitlin Starr. Caitlin is a young woman from Toronto who started posting to social media about living life with Type 1 Diabetes. Early into her diagnosis, Caitlin recognized the power of social media in connecting her with others who are living with T1D. Like them, she uses her influence to raise awareness for T1D, how to continue living a normal life with it and the importance of not believing that you are the label of this disease.
In this episode of RESILIENT PEOPLE, Caitlin and I spoke about her purpose, where she gets her resilience from, McDonald's food and how to battle ignorance.
In this episode of RESILIENT PEOPLE, Caitlin and I spoke about her purpose, where she gets her resilience from, McDonald's food and how to battle ignorance.
Kindness as your legacy
MARCH 29, 2022 | 05:26 | S2:E35
In this episode of RESILIENT PEOPLE, I want listeners to think about leaving a legacy of kindness. With many of us worried about the current state of the world, kindness matters more than ever.
I reference a recent event that was held in memory of my husband who passed away from brain cancer in 2020 and talk about what he is most remembered for in the legal and business communities in Canada and around the world. A skilled and well-respected competition law lawyer, Adam Fanaki is most remembered for his kindness.
I reference a recent event that was held in memory of my husband who passed away from brain cancer in 2020 and talk about what he is most remembered for in the legal and business communities in Canada and around the world. A skilled and well-respected competition law lawyer, Adam Fanaki is most remembered for his kindness.
Caregiver essentials: Serial caregiver & educator Donna Thomson
MARCH 17, 2022 | 38:43 | S2:E34
A caregiver almost her entire life, Donna Thomson calls herself a "serial family caregiver". She helped to care for her ailing father who passed away when she was a teenager; has been caring for her 34 year old son who was born with severe cerebral palsy; as well as for her mother for ten years until she passed away at 96 years old.
Through these different experiences in caregiving, Donna found a purpose in advocacy work, writing and research with the goal to help caregivers everywhere. In this episode of RESILIENT PEOPLE, we spoke about her purpose, where she gets her resilience from, how caregivers can care better as well as how their support systems can care back for them; and the value in having a good laugh.
Through these different experiences in caregiving, Donna found a purpose in advocacy work, writing and research with the goal to help caregivers everywhere. In this episode of RESILIENT PEOPLE, we spoke about her purpose, where she gets her resilience from, how caregivers can care better as well as how their support systems can care back for them; and the value in having a good laugh.
Making lemonade out of lemons: HIV advocate & author Susan Mintz
FEBRUARY 23, 2022 | 38:31 | S2:E33
In this episode of RESILIENT PEOPLE, host Janet Fanaki is joined by longtime contributor, Susan Mintz. They are two widows who talk about the importance of maintaining a positive attitude and how to live a happy life. This is an episode that promises to give a new way of looking at life after loss.
Healing from childhood trauma: Agnes Chen of Starlings Community
FEBRUARY 7, 2022 | 31:14 | S2:E32
As Agnes Chen states on the welcome page of her website for Starlings Community, "Children do not get a choice in the kind of home environment they are raised in. But as a community, we have a choice in the kind of community environment that supports them."
She started Starlings to address the trauma that children experience while living with parental addictions.
She started Starlings to address the trauma that children experience while living with parental addictions.
How gratitude builds resilience: Chris DT Gordon
JANUARY 21, 2022 | 32:12 | S2:E31
Practicing gratitude can help in building resilience. After surviving a near amputation from flesh-eating bacteria, Chris DT Gordon developed The Attitude of Gratitude. He shares his experience and thoughts with the host of the RESILIENT PEOPLE podcast Janet Fanaki.
Travel for building resilience: Midlife Globetrotter Susan Heinrich
JANUARY 8, 2022 | 33:31 | S2:E30
Susan Heinrich is excited about being middle aged. She is 54 years old, has done solo trips to India and Paris and wants to inspire other midlife women to embrace their lives with the same sense of adventure. She is known as the Midlife Globetrotter on social media and posts about her travels, food and fashion. Susan doesn't see age as an obstacle but as an opportunity to reinvent ourselves or just get reaquainted with our passions and interests.
Building resilience in brain injury survivors: David A. Grant
DECEMBER 9, 2021 | 28:40 | S2:E29
David A. Grant lives with a traumatic brain injury after being hit by a teenage driver while cycling.
People who have a TBI face many issues that in some cases are permanent. Headaches, dizziness, fatigue, depression, irritability and memory problems to name a few. Living with difficulties like these can cause the people around them to disappear, leaving the affected person with a sense of despair and loneliness.
People who have a TBI face many issues that in some cases are permanent. Headaches, dizziness, fatigue, depression, irritability and memory problems to name a few. Living with difficulties like these can cause the people around them to disappear, leaving the affected person with a sense of despair and loneliness.
Kidnapped mom campaigns for better vehicle safety: Janette Fennell of Kids and Car Safety
NOVEMBER 25, 2021 | 36:55 | S2:E28
How often have you found yourself sitting in your vehicle and wondering about the safety features around you? The interior trunk release. The rear safety camera? And the switch for your power windows? Janette Fennell is a vehicle safety advocate in the US. Back in 1995 an alarming thing happened to her and her husband when they were kidnapped in the trunk of their car.
Crossing the Atlantic in a row boat: Tommy Caulfield & James Whittle of The Tempest Two
NOVEMBER 5, 2021 | 31:25 | S2:E27
Tommy Caulfield and James Whittle are two friends from the UK who one day decided to cross the Atlantic Ocean in a row boat. The voyage took them 54 days and as you can imagine, it was gruelling. The pair discovered a lot about themselves in that little vessel. Mainly the importance of pushing through their comfort zones and embracing the rewards that come with it.
Surviving the Minneapolis bridge collapse: Lindsay Walz
OCTOBER 21, 2021 | 35:50 | S2:E26
On August 1, 2007 the I35W bridge in Minneapolis suddenly collapsed during the drive-home rush hour. Thirteen people were killed and 145 people injured. My guest on this episode of RESILIENT PEOPLE, Lindsay Walz, was one of the survivors. Lindsay and I spoke about her methods of finding peace following this trauma and the role that art plays in her life.
What he gained by losing weight: Kyle White
OCTOBER 7, 2021 | 29:47 | S2:E25
Before the pandemic hit, Kyle White weighed over 400 pounds. At 28 years old he was living with high blood pressure, bad eating habits and an inactive lifestyle. He knew that something needed to change. He began by walking and soon that turned into running.
Within 18 months he completed his first marathon and lost over 185 pounds. Kyle credits his mindset and the community around him. He takes us back to the moment when it all began, the hardest parts of his journey and how he keeps going.
Within 18 months he completed his first marathon and lost over 185 pounds. Kyle credits his mindset and the community around him. He takes us back to the moment when it all began, the hardest parts of his journey and how he keeps going.
Lessons in resilience continue
SEPTEMBER 23, 2021 | 08:25 | S2:E24
Welcome to Season 2 of the RESILIENT PEOPLE podcast. It's great to be back and I'm so happy to have you along with me.
This season, we'll be hearing more from regular people around the world who are admired for their resilience. As we heard from previous guests, the power of purpose will continue to be a central theme in the upcoming season. We've learned some terrific lessons for building resilience and these will continue as we move forward.
All of the episodes will demonstrate that, with the right tools and resources, it is possible to find a purpose from life's challenges.
This season, we'll be hearing more from regular people around the world who are admired for their resilience. As we heard from previous guests, the power of purpose will continue to be a central theme in the upcoming season. We've learned some terrific lessons for building resilience and these will continue as we move forward.
All of the episodes will demonstrate that, with the right tools and resources, it is possible to find a purpose from life's challenges.
Popcorn created her comeback: Emily O'Brien of Comeback Snacks
JUNE 24TH, 2021 | 25:56 | S1:E23
Emily O'Brien made one bad decision that landed her in prison. While spending time with other inmates watching television and making popcorn, Emily also developed a business idea. A gourmet popcorn company called, Comeback Snacks. It not only satisfies cravings but also helps former inmates by giving them a second chance - a comeback.
Emily chatted with Janet Fanaki, the host of RESILIENT PEOPLE about her experience and why this purpose is so important to her.
Emily chatted with Janet Fanaki, the host of RESILIENT PEOPLE about her experience and why this purpose is so important to her.
Helping those living with grief on Father's Day
JUNE 17TH, 2021 | 05:58 | S1:E22
Like any special day in the year, Father’s Day can be happy and terribly sad for many people. Losing one’s dad, husband or father-like figure can make this day very difficult to navigate alone. I lost my 51 year old husband Adam to brain cancer in 2020. Married for 21 years and the father to my children Isobel and Sam, Father’s Day continues to be a tricky one to navigate.
“The first year without him was really hard. The kids and I have had to learn to manage the special days of the year in new ways.”
I offer some techniques that have helped me through other trigger days including Valentine's Day and my birthday (which I shared with Adam) along with advice from those with lived experience.
“The first year without him was really hard. The kids and I have had to learn to manage the special days of the year in new ways.”
I offer some techniques that have helped me through other trigger days including Valentine's Day and my birthday (which I shared with Adam) along with advice from those with lived experience.
How to conquer challenges: Adventurist Sean Swarner
JUNE 10TH, 2021 | 29:45 | S1:E21
In this episode of RESILIENT PEOPLE, I had the pleasure of speaking with extreme adventurer Sean Swarner. Sean has scaled the world’s seven tallest summits, hiked to the south and north poles making him a member of the exclusive Explorer’s Grand Slam. He did all of this with only one lung.
A survivor of 2 children cancers, Sean has proven that anything is possible and aims to inspire cancer patients and others to conquer their own mountains. As someone who has spent his entire life overcoming challenges, I was keen to learn what inspires Sean, where he gets his resilience from and what standing on top of the world is like given everything he’s been through.
A survivor of 2 children cancers, Sean has proven that anything is possible and aims to inspire cancer patients and others to conquer their own mountains. As someone who has spent his entire life overcoming challenges, I was keen to learn what inspires Sean, where he gets his resilience from and what standing on top of the world is like given everything he’s been through.
REVELATIONS: What is S.H.A.D.E.S?
JUNE 3RD, 2021 | 04:27 | S1:E20
We're spending a lot, maybe too much, time on our computers and devices. From checking text messages to fooling around on social media and hopping on video conference calls there are many days when it can seem like we're forever staring at a screen.
It's no surprise that it's not great for our mental or physical health.
The acronym S.H.A.D.E.S was developed as a self check-in, to ensure that we pay attention to the things that keep us healthy, focused and resilient: Sleep, Hydration, Air, Diet, Exercise & Stillness.
Janet Fanaki, the host of the RESILIENT PEOPLE podcast and lead content creator for the RESILIENT PEOPLE blog, walks us through it in this 4 minute clip.
It's no surprise that it's not great for our mental or physical health.
The acronym S.H.A.D.E.S was developed as a self check-in, to ensure that we pay attention to the things that keep us healthy, focused and resilient: Sleep, Hydration, Air, Diet, Exercise & Stillness.
Janet Fanaki, the host of the RESILIENT PEOPLE podcast and lead content creator for the RESILIENT PEOPLE blog, walks us through it in this 4 minute clip.
She wrote a book to explain death to children: Author Marnie Hill
MAY 27TH, 2021 | 29:29 | S1:E19
Marnie Hill wrote the book, Daddy's Blue Eyes, following the death of her son-in-law Matthew Leslie. He left behind a young wife and two daughters.
A professional communications specialist, Marnie was coping with her own grief while also looking for a way to help her granddaughters to understand their dad's passing. By writing this book, her goal is to also offer parents, grandparents, teachers and caregivers a way to gently start a conversation with young people about grief.
A professional communications specialist, Marnie was coping with her own grief while also looking for a way to help her granddaughters to understand their dad's passing. By writing this book, her goal is to also offer parents, grandparents, teachers and caregivers a way to gently start a conversation with young people about grief.
Tips & takeaways for resilience from RESILIENT PEOPLE
MAY 20TH, 2021 | 03:24 | S1:E18
Resilience is the outcome but how do we get there? My name is Janet Fanaki and I'm the host of RESILIENT PEOPLE. In this episode I'm sharing easy tips and takeaways for you to try in building your resilience.
Resilience through better nutrition: Dietitian Ashley Koff
MAY 13TH, 2021 | 31:31 | S1:E17
Registered Dietitian Ashley Koff is a leading expert in nutrition and creator of The Better Nutrition Program. She is also an author, public speaker, and consultant who lives in the US. Ashley's goal is to ensure that patients and clients are receiving the best knowledge to manage their health through food, lifestyle and supplements. She loves talking about "gut health" and joined me on RESILIENT PEOPLE to discuss its relationship to building resilience.
Ashley has shared her expertise on shows like "The Doctors" and "The Dr.Oz Show".
Ashley has shared her expertise on shows like "The Doctors" and "The Dr.Oz Show".
Finding purpose from loss: Patient safety advocate Melissa Sheldrick
APRIL 29TH, 2021 | 36:24 | S1:E16
Melissa Sheldrick is a Toronto mom, wife and patient safety advocate. She came to this role following the sudden death of her son Andrew. He was only 8 years old when an error in the dispensing by a pharmacist had Andrew take a lethal dose of something other than his medication.
Heartbroken but determined, Melissa set out to make it her purpose to ensure that this never happened to another person. In our conversation, we spoke about Andrew and his legacy to protect patient safety around the world.
Heartbroken but determined, Melissa set out to make it her purpose to ensure that this never happened to another person. In our conversation, we spoke about Andrew and his legacy to protect patient safety around the world.
Black dad worries: Blogger Casey Palmer
APRIL 15TH, 2021 | 24:52 | S1:E15
Casey Palmer is an author, blogger, husband and dad from Toronto. Many of his posts are about parenthood and life with his wife and two young boys. He created the hashtag #blackdadworries to raise awareness for the double-standards that exist for the Black community and the things he considers in raising his sons.
As the trial of Officer Derek Chauvin is currently taking place in Minneapolis for the killing of George Floyd, it seemed like a good time to share a conversation I had with Casey in the summer of 2020 when Mr. Floyd died. We discuss code-switching for people in the Black community, what has changed for Casey from when he was growing up to now and how he hopes his platform will continue the important conversation about race.
As the trial of Officer Derek Chauvin is currently taking place in Minneapolis for the killing of George Floyd, it seemed like a good time to share a conversation I had with Casey in the summer of 2020 when Mr. Floyd died. We discuss code-switching for people in the Black community, what has changed for Casey from when he was growing up to now and how he hopes his platform will continue the important conversation about race.
Building resilience through financial literacy: Expert Doris Belland
APRIL 1ST, 2021 | 36:50 | S1:E14
So much of resilience is in being prepared for life's unexpected challenges. How does this relate to money? Doris Belland is a Financial Repair Expert who has witnessed firsthand the power of knowing all about your finances. She was in her 20s when her husband was diagnosed with cancer and then following his death at a young age, she found herself dealing with deep grief but also a large amount of debt.
Doris learned the hard way that she should have known more about their finances and now counsels women on this very topic. She wants people to know that it's never too late to learn and to become comfortable with managing your finances.
Doris learned the hard way that she should have known more about their finances and now counsels women on this very topic. She wants people to know that it's never too late to learn and to become comfortable with managing your finances.
Stay-at-home dad diaries: Dale Allen-Berg
MARCH 18TH, 2021 | 37:18 | S1:E13
The challenges of being a stay-at-home parent are real. There are many rewards but it's a job that is 24/7 and at times very demanding. For Dale Allen Berg, being a stay-at-home dad to three active young children under the age of 6, is enough to make anyone run away in fear. On top of the regular chores he does at home: cooking, cleaning, driving for last-minute items, appointments, programs - his three children: Liam, and twins Ethan and Madison all have special needs that require a lot of medical and occupational assistance.
In addition, Dale is also living with his own serious health issues. He has said that people call his life a rollercoaster. Dale's resilience comes from sharing his daily experiences on a blog and prior to the pandemic he spoke to groups to share his life story and lessons learned.
In addition, Dale is also living with his own serious health issues. He has said that people call his life a rollercoaster. Dale's resilience comes from sharing his daily experiences on a blog and prior to the pandemic he spoke to groups to share his life story and lessons learned.
How a skirt made of rejection letters helped to normalize failure: Dr. Caitlyn Kirby
MARCH 4TH, 2021 | 17:14 | S1:E12
Dr. Caitlin Kirby is an environmental science educator and researcher. She successfully completed her doctorate degree in October 2019. Normally 3 years long, there are many struggles in completing a PhD. Stress, funding, work life balance and in Dr. Kirby’s case - rejection.
“Rejection from what?” you may be wondering. For Caitlin she did something unique when challenging her doctoral dissertation that brought the issue of resilience and rejection to light and she hopes that it will help others. I contacted Caitlin after seeing a post she did on Twitter, that was actually originally done on an academic Twitter account, and it got her a whole lot of attention worldwide.
Just so you know, her original post read: “Successfully defended my PhD dissertation today! In the spirit of acknowledging and normalizing failure in the process, I defended in a skirt made of rejection letters from the course of my PhD. THANK YOU to everyone involved in my journey.”
“Rejection from what?” you may be wondering. For Caitlin she did something unique when challenging her doctoral dissertation that brought the issue of resilience and rejection to light and she hopes that it will help others. I contacted Caitlin after seeing a post she did on Twitter, that was actually originally done on an academic Twitter account, and it got her a whole lot of attention worldwide.
Just so you know, her original post read: “Successfully defended my PhD dissertation today! In the spirit of acknowledging and normalizing failure in the process, I defended in a skirt made of rejection letters from the course of my PhD. THANK YOU to everyone involved in my journey.”
The power of giving up hate: Holocaust survivor Elly Gotz
FEBRUARY 18TH, 2021 | 29:28 | S1:E11
My friend Maggie highly recommended that I somehow find Mr. Elly Gotz for RESILIENT PEOPLE. Her daughter attended one of his infamous school presentations. My son Sam also heard Elly speak at his school. Until the pandemic started in 2020, Elly Gotz was doing over 100 speaking engagements a year - and at the time he was 92 YO!
Not only is he a public speaker, but also an author, engineer, business owner, pilot, a husband for more than 60 years and he recently added skydiver to his list of accomplishments - and there are many more!
Elly’s presentations on living through the Holocaust and his message of giving up hate to find happiness leaves such an impact on all attendees - teachers and students as well as audiences everywhere young and old. I wanted to learn more about how he found resilience to move beyond the Holocaust, his message to others and where he gets this amazing energy to constantly challenge himself.
Not only is he a public speaker, but also an author, engineer, business owner, pilot, a husband for more than 60 years and he recently added skydiver to his list of accomplishments - and there are many more!
Elly’s presentations on living through the Holocaust and his message of giving up hate to find happiness leaves such an impact on all attendees - teachers and students as well as audiences everywhere young and old. I wanted to learn more about how he found resilience to move beyond the Holocaust, his message to others and where he gets this amazing energy to constantly challenge himself.
Surviving Valentine's Day when you are facing grief
FEBRUARY 10TH, 2021 | 08:41 | S1:E10
I’m doing something different for this episode. Instead of bringing you a conversation that I’ve had with someone, I’m going to talk about a topic that I’ve been thinking about for some time and anyone who is facing grief will be able to relate to it.
We’re a few days away from the biggest and most romantic day of the year - if you’re in a couple. Valentine’s Day. If you’re not in a relationship, it’s most likely a “trigger” day for you where you either don’t care about it, want to skip it or are doing some sort of a pivot with it.
This Valentine’s Day will mark one year minus a day that Adam passed away at only 51 years old. So as with all other special occasions during the past year, Mother’s Day, Father’s Day, our anniversary and birthday (we shared the same day, same year) I’m doing a bit of a pivot.
I’m here to share some suggestions that will hopefully make the day a little easier for us all.
We’re a few days away from the biggest and most romantic day of the year - if you’re in a couple. Valentine’s Day. If you’re not in a relationship, it’s most likely a “trigger” day for you where you either don’t care about it, want to skip it or are doing some sort of a pivot with it.
This Valentine’s Day will mark one year minus a day that Adam passed away at only 51 years old. So as with all other special occasions during the past year, Mother’s Day, Father’s Day, our anniversary and birthday (we shared the same day, same year) I’m doing a bit of a pivot.
I’m here to share some suggestions that will hopefully make the day a little easier for us all.
The power of a positive attitude: Dr. Jim Swan
FEBRUARY 4TH, 2021 | 22:54 | S1:E9
In this episode, I speak with Dr. Jim Swan, an esteemed cardiologist from Toronto. In 2019, Jim lost his twin brother George to Glioblastoma (GBM), the most aggressive form of brain cancer. They were 70 years old. As fate would have it, only one year later, Jim would be diagnosed with the same deadly disease.
Just as Jim made the practice of medicine a mission in his life, he charted a new purpose in searching for the root cause of GBM. He wanted to help others who were living with the disease and prevent more from getting it.
Just as Jim made the practice of medicine a mission in his life, he charted a new purpose in searching for the root cause of GBM. He wanted to help others who were living with the disease and prevent more from getting it.
Conquering fears of aging: Midlife motivator Elizabeth Verwey
JANUARY 21ST, 2021 | 24:10 | S1:E8
Elizabeth Verwey had a major shift in her life when she was 56. Her husband whom she had known since she was 17 and married when she was 19 had decided that he wanted out of their seemingly happy marriage. Even as a successful and award-winning business mentor, Elizabeth found herself having a fear of being alone in her mid 50s. So she followed the advice that she'd give to her clients and she made a list of all of the things that she feared and decided to tackle them one by one.
What she discovered was that it was exciting to do things on her own and she learned a lot about herself.
What she discovered was that it was exciting to do things on her own and she learned a lot about herself.
Lessons from his father: Lee Silverstein of 'We Have Cancer'
JANUARY 7TH, 2021 | 21:38 | S1:E7
Sixty-year old Lee Silverstein has lived with three different cancers in his lifetime including kidney, colon and liver. He created the 'We Have Cancer' podcast to provide information, inspiration and hope. As Lee sees it, cancer affects everyone.
I spoke with him and his wife Linda from their home in Florida. In between the laughs, we talked about his resilience, the valuable life lessons on aging that he's learned from his dad and why he started a podcast about cancer.
I spoke with him and his wife Linda from their home in Florida. In between the laughs, we talked about his resilience, the valuable life lessons on aging that he's learned from his dad and why he started a podcast about cancer.
Building resilience in students: Education expert Jane Kristoffy
DECEMBER 24TH, 2020 | 17:06 | S1:E6
In this episode, I speak with educational consultant, Jane Kristoffy, in Toronto. Jane is a teacher, guidance counsellor and operates a consulting business to help students, parents and educators everywhere.
Her goal is to help elementary, high school, university and college students to reach their personal and education goals. Jane and I spoke about building resilience in children, and how this generation of parents may be getting things wrong. She offers some great tips to gently loosen our grip and how our kids will benefit in the long run.
Her goal is to help elementary, high school, university and college students to reach their personal and education goals. Jane and I spoke about building resilience in children, and how this generation of parents may be getting things wrong. She offers some great tips to gently loosen our grip and how our kids will benefit in the long run.
Inspiration from an 18 year old with terminal cancer: Matthew Pullan
DECEMBER 10TH, 2020 | 13:48 | S1:E5
Matthew Pullan is 18 years old and lives in Bury, England. It's a city near Manchester. He’s preparing for university, continuing to study, spends time with friends where possible during the pandemic, and runs a blog. The blog revolves around Matthew's love of running as well as his experience living with terminal brain cancer. We spoke about his illness, where his resilience comes from, how his blog inspires others to push themselves forward.
Building resilience in Toronto's LGBTQ+ youth: Terrence Rodriguez
NOVEMBER 26TH, 2020 | 12:22 | S1:E4
In this episode, I speak with Terrence Rodriguez who faced struggles, isolation and loneliness through his journey as a transgender man. Terrence’s story of resilience stems from his desire for finding his own community. By recognizing the struggle that many LGBTQ youth go through, he launched a social hub and advocacy group in Toronto called, REXpride.
It is a safe space for them to gather, make friends, be among their peers and feel open and confident in their identity. If there’s one thing we can take away from this episode it’s “you’re not alone”.
It is a safe space for them to gather, make friends, be among their peers and feel open and confident in their identity. If there’s one thing we can take away from this episode it’s “you’re not alone”.
Focusing on abilities and not disabilities: Playwright, knitter and funny lady Morgan Frey
NOVEMBER 26TH, 2020 | 23:33 | S1:E3
Morgan Frey is a young woman from Toronto who grew up like most kids. Going to camp, dance and skating lessons - she was also drawn to the theatre and decided to pursue a career as a writer - even mounting her own show in the prestigious Toronto Fringe Festival.
Morgan is also a triple amputee but she hasn’t let that stand in the way of going after her dreams. I sat down with Morgan to talk about what it was like to grow up with such unique challenges, and how a person’s limits shouldn’t stop them from realizing their abilities.
Morgan is also a triple amputee but she hasn’t let that stand in the way of going after her dreams. I sat down with Morgan to talk about what it was like to grow up with such unique challenges, and how a person’s limits shouldn’t stop them from realizing their abilities.
His loss turns to comforting other cancer patients: Jason Fiorotto of The Tory Day Fund
NOVEMBER 26TH, 2020 | 24:25 | S1:E2
When Jason Fiorotto found out that his wife Tory had aggressive breast cancer, they made it their mission to help bring comfort to other cancer patients. When Tory passed away, Jason started a fundraiser and it was that purpose that helped him move forward. Jason and I spoke about building resilience and continuing Tory's legacy.
Resilience explorer Janet Fanaki introduces you to RESILIENT PEOPLE
NOVEMBER 13TH, 2020 | 05:24 | S1: E1
I never imagined in my worst nightmares that at 47, my husband would be diagnosed with terminal brain cancer, and that I would lose him by 51.
My name is Janet Fanaki and during my husband Adam's surgery and treatments, I spent a lot of time people-watching in the waiting room. How were they getting through the day? How do they find strength?
I started interviewing people who I admired for their resilience and began a blog. Soon I was getting more and more recommendations and strangers started tweeting me their stories.
RESILIENT PEOPLE became a way to prove that you don't need resources or connections to start a movement. Just the passion to make a change. I interview people around the world who faced adversity, bounced back and now help others be resilient too.
Join me as I introduce you to the people you wish you always knew, and now do.
My name is Janet Fanaki and during my husband Adam's surgery and treatments, I spent a lot of time people-watching in the waiting room. How were they getting through the day? How do they find strength?
I started interviewing people who I admired for their resilience and began a blog. Soon I was getting more and more recommendations and strangers started tweeting me their stories.
RESILIENT PEOPLE became a way to prove that you don't need resources or connections to start a movement. Just the passion to make a change. I interview people around the world who faced adversity, bounced back and now help others be resilient too.
Join me as I introduce you to the people you wish you always knew, and now do.